How bold couples are before they even play
Before a single question, every couple sets the dial: Discover (a gentle start - soft questions and warm-ups), Explore (the sweet spot - daily life to fantasies), or Unleash (full depth, no brakes). The dial starts on Explore - so every couple that reaches for Unleash chose it on purpose. Here is how that appetite really splits.
How couples set the dial
Discover 6%, Explore 35%, Unleash 59%. Each couple is counted once, on the level they started with.
Does it change when she starts the game?
When the woman opens the game, 54% of couples pick Unleash; when the man opens it, 62%. Player one is whoever set the couple up - a small window into who reaches for bold first.
She starts the game
He starts the game
Method
Each couple picks a boldness level at the start of the game; the middle level (Explore) is preselected, so choosing gentler or bolder is a deliberate move. We count couples where both partners finished the quiz, each once, on the level they began with. The she-starts / he-starts split uses who set the couple up (player one). Anonymized and aggregated; no response can be traced to a person or couple.
Data is refreshed once a day. Last update: 30.07.2026, 04:45
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